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Had comments posted on my immediate family buy a Find A Grave member (BlueJay) who is so distant a trip that she isn't related, post incorrect information. Then I had my uncle / godfather and who I am named after Memorial taken out of my management and placed under another "VERY Distant" relation without my permission. When I questioned To d A Grave about all of this, I was kicked off the site. When I asked why, their answer is always, "You violated Find A Grave rules and procedures." Nothing else. Yet Find A Grave totally ignored my complaints of harassment from Bluejay and did not follow their own rules when taking my uncle's memorial from me. And Find A Grave was sent my birth certificate showing my relationship. This site has absolutely no morals or ethics. And you can not rely on the information posted as pure truth.

If your memorial page is merged then go to the person that created it first and ask to have it transferred to you, if they won't then add to the Memorial page that is there. Don't see an issue. If you don't want what you put on line used by other researchers then don't put it out there. Find a Grave is for everyone not just you. If you want your information for only you then put it somewhere else. Find a Grave is free and is an amazing site for True Genealogist as well as for family members of the deceased to have a place to find and visit that can not afford to go in person. Grow Up.

User's recommendation: Just follow the Rules and Enjoy Free Use.

Can't access my find a grave account

As a person who was interested in stuff like this, I hated the community! My cousins grave got stolen and when I asked kindly for it back, I was harassed by people. I also added some photos of someone, this woman gets mad at me telling me to delete them in respect for the family (you can do unlimited photos on this persons grave so I dont think its that big of a deal). Just dont even bother with this site. I have since deleted my account and I dont bother going back on. Bullying is pretty common on there.

False information on Grave Site. When you post a family written Obituary, the facts in that Obituary may not always be the truth. Case in point Fictitious Native American Indian Chief!!! The person I am referring to created an alter ego proclaiming himself to all of a sudden to be a famous Native American Chief. He fooled some into believing this and when he died, it was written in to his obituary. He in fact has never been a Chief-Records will prove this! But people doing Genealogy will blindly follow this and think this is truth. You have created a monster by copying Obituaries!!!

User's recommendation: Do not believe everything Written in Obiuaries on Find a Grave.

Message says my email/password are not correct. email address is correct since I receive edits, etc via email so I changed my password and still will not let me access my FAG account. Barbara Pargament bpargament2001****@***.com