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KARI NORSTOG
I would like to "THANK YOU" Find A Grave by not allowing the "Act of Fraud" being played out by banning a contributor know as Kari Norstog #12728****. After Kari Norstog was banned from "Find A Grave" on April 15, 2014, Kari Norstog signed up eight more times as a contributor to Find A Grave. Find A Grave deleted all the fraudulent names provided by Kari Norstog.
The names were are as follows:
WILLIAM TUCK-#4840****,.....CKN-#12728****,.....STARLIGHT- />SPIRITWIND82-#4843****....MARTHA BREDESEN-#4842****,....
MARLA REDFEATHER-#4842**** MEYERS FAMILY-#4836****
The last I heard, Kari is still trying to be a contributor on Find A Grave with so success.
Thank you again.
Lenda Tuck
Columbus, Ohio
I have been blocked on findagrave
I tried to go to my findagrave, it said I have been blocked.
Prudence Bannick
My phone number 989-414-****
User's recommendation: Tell why we have been blocked.
Harrodsburg, Kentucky
I need to correct on grave memorial I created on Steve Vitoux from Graceland cemetary to cremation
I didnt get the menu selection about correcting a listing on Findagrave. Something concerning DNA!
I need to have a correction on two gaves:
Steven Vitoux cremated not interred.
He died 8/23/24.
My Grandmother who died in 1960 and shows her buried in old union cemetary in Valpo. She is actually buried in Graceland.
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Compton, California
They are not helpful
Nothing but bots work for find a grave and the most experienced BOT is Amber
Amber is not empathetic or knowledgeable and I have requested not to work with Amber but all I speak to are AU artificial intelligent people with no brains the people there at Find a grave are inept non people
User's recommendation: Don’t use Find A Grave
Pasadena, Texas
Resolved: Cemetery name & deceased friends find a grave contribution s or adding people wrong Cemetery how fix name of Right cemetery need change city name
Need name of cemetery name & old cemetery not even in use in decades is in private land this old Pettus cemetery is down town Pettus tx. Bee. County taken off Active cemetery was call same name but different location very complicated Im contributed #4866**** EloisaDiaz I have family buried here R.L.Sommerville cemertyv#5966 1**** CR.117 Tulsita Texas 78102 not Pettus I need the was named Pettus cemetery taken off can I edit the name .please I trying for yrs to get this correct family members name added to old Pettus cemetery felt of contributor dont know the area I was born raised in Bee county so I know people passed & cemetery.thank you.
User's recommendation: To confirm the correct cemetery’s in same Town .address tells correct cemtery don’t just go by name .
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Venice, Florida
Unauthorized change to my memorial
Well, I wouldn't say that I am pissed. I just want to know how someone could change information on one of my memorials.
The memorial in question is 13692****. Someone entered a name plus date and place of birth. I have done extensive research on this individual and there is no recorded information on her name or date and place of birth. Whenever I want to change something in a memorial that I do not manage, I have to suggest the change and it is the manager's decision whether to change it or not.
So how did someone change mine without contacting me?
And how do I block it from happening again? I have changed it back and I will watch to see if it happens again.
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Verified ReviewerSomeone hijacked one of my posts
It hasn't been addressed; I have received no response. Two of my posts that I created have been hijacked, and I have no access to them.
I need to edit a couple of them.
Posts: Russell H.
Ferrier Jr. is my paternal uncle.
Kaelan Satoshi YAMASATO is my only grandson.
- Easy to post
- No customer service
Preferred solution: I need to have access to the sites I created for Russell Ferrier, my paternal uncle and Kaelan Satoshi Yamasato, my grandson
User's recommendation: Please note that there is no customer service Passed
Stewartstown, Pennsylvania
I am not getting my question answered
I was sent message from a contributor A Deerfield bu must have deleted it by mistake can you resend it i was replying with her and i have som new information for her
Stockbridge, Georgia
Horrible website! BEWARE
New guidelines-
--Allows "relatives" to claim memorials which removes the name of the original creator replacing it with the "family" member. Members are now STEALING each other's memorials by multiple accounts.
Members are not adding full death dates to keep the system from allowing "family" members to take memorials.
--An edit for "change burial location" has been added requiring members to send in corrected burial location edits (which can be declined). You can no longer create a new memorial with the correct information and have the memorial merged to you (including FAMILY members where you have done the research or know the correct disposition). You have to send an edit so the original poster gets to keep your family memorial. This includes cremations (so every memorial can be incorrect because an edit must be sent to correct it; creating a duplicate and requesting a merge is a violation of the updated rules and guidelines.
The site is basically a regurgitation of obituaries with personal information.
The administrators have not and will never apply the rules to everyone. One contributor has over a half a million memorials and refuses to transfer them to family.
It's a huge card game with family memorials, trading and fighting over them. The site is now owned by Ancestry and it's no longer about gravesites, it's becoming a genealogy platform and newspaper clippings of weddings, birth certificates, death certificates, etc. are posted in the picture section of the memorials.
PRIVATE information for everyone to see.
Find A Grave is making money on deceased family members because they sell advertising placed on the memorials or you have to pay to remove the advertising from a family/friend/pet/etc.'s memorial. I don't understand how anyone would allow a website to do that with their family members or any deceased human or pet.
The site needs to be shut down/completely removed from the Internet.
User's recommendation: Everyone needs to shut this site down.
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Verified ReviewerHave trouble signing in.to.my.accoumt
I did not have success! I needed to change my old email address to my current email. I do not remember my old email information.
I still need help.
a.d.poole@***.com
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Los Angeles, California
Continued demand that I post a grave photo which is not possible at this time.
Harold Lee Simpson has continuously posted his concern on Find A Grave John Thomas Levi, Jr. despite knowing that John has not yet been interred at Rest Haven, Wichita, Kansas for his final resting place.
This is becoming a bother so I need clarification or someone to advise Mr. Simpson to stop demanding what is not possible at this time.
Thank you.
Shirley Jolley Spencer
626 278 ****
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Charlotte, North Carolina
Grave Thieves and Find a Grave Bullies
Graveyard Thieves and Bullies fill this Find a Grave Website
as I got my on Find a Grave to build Memorials for my Deceased Family to Honor them & remember my Beloved.
But as these other not Nice Gravers pounce on you then Harass you so badly about your Family Memorials as they are not Related,
then these Gravers turn around to make Duplicates of your Memorials then they Report your Memorials as a Duplicate Grave
then once your Family Memorials get merged into these Gravers & their Grave Buddies Profiles then these Gravers change their Grave information to un match your Memorials
but in the meantime these Gravers get Rewarded (for their Brilliant but Evil Theft techniques) by Find a Grave.
Find a Grave lets these Bullies take your Family Memorials so youre out of what you initially wanted to do
Is to Honor your Beloved.
And Find a Grave will NOT Care that it is your Families Memorials and they do not Care if
it is a totally a wrong Deceased Person that was put into a Cemetery as long as they get that Cemetery and Find a Grave do NOT Care that these other Gravers apply
False Information in just to get
Your Graves.
Some of these Gravers have 0 Life but to Fight a Honest Family Member out of their Grave.
Find a Grave doesnt own up to their own Policies yet throw them Policies your way if you Complain.
Find a Grave doesnt Care if youre Bullied by other Gravers daily.
- Posting of incorrect information
User's recommendation: Get another Memorial site
Muskego, Wisconsin
3rd world country customer support. Philippines and elsewhere.
I have an issue with their website, keep getting a message in red letters and to try again in a few minutes. It's been days and they don't answer emails, and phone calls go to Philippines and other 3rd world countries.
User's recommendation: No recommendation offered
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Charlotte, North Carolina
Graveyard Thieves and Bullies fill this Find a Grave
Graveyard Thieves and Bullies fill this site (Find a Grave). I got on Find a Grave to build my Family Memorials but other Graver Bullies you out of your Memorials as they Lie and make Duplicates of your Graves to get them Merged with
other Gravers or themselves then these Gravers change their Information to un match your Grave but in the meantime you're out of your Family having a Memorial. Get away from these Evil Gravers.
User's recommendation: Get another Memorial site for your Loved ones
Horrible Website
Kerhonkson, New York
I have a problem as a member
I am a volunteer to take photos of grave stones and am getting requests WAY outside (Wales) of my location. Why?
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KARI IS A LIAR KARI IS A LIAR KARI IS A LIAR "MY FACE BOOK HAS NO PICTURE OF ME!!!!" KARI IS A LIAR KARI IS A LIAR KARI IS A LIAR!!!!!!!!!!!!
SO WHAT KARI!!!????? SERIOUSLY, YOU ARE A LIAR IT HAS BEEN PROVEN.
YOU SAID "MY FACE BOOK HAS NO PICTURE OF ME!!!!" AND IT DOES I JUST CHECKED AGAIN AND IT IS THERE. YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A FAT LIAR!!!
NOTHING YOU SAY FROM HERE ON OUT HAS NO MEANING BECAUSE NO ONE CAN TRUST YOU TO TELL THE HONEST TO GOD TRUTH. SHAME ON YOU!
After reading through these comments one theme always appears in comments left my Kari or her alias's. Just to quote a few "you better watch out", "the clock is ticking", "you don't have much time left" just to quote of few.
In my opinion those are out right terrorist threats.
On the other hand I have yet to read one comment where Lenda or her alias's are harassing or threatening Kari. It is clear to all of us that are healthy minded and stable that Kari is engaging in terroristic attacks.
Why Lie 11 hours ago
Yeah I went to the face book page too right after that comment was posted and I saw the photo of Kari but after Kari saw the comment the photo was removed and the cover photo changed too....See for yourselves
In response to:I went to a "Kari Norstog's" face book page a few days ago and there was a picture of her it was a head shot hair do was from the eighties. There was a pic of chris and maddie, pics of scenery, pics of her bio dad, pics of kari in biker trash with biker trash.
Not sure why Kari is lying about the pics being there because they were before someone posted that fact on here. This must be how she got found out on findagrave. What kind of psycho rushes to remove pics of themselves on facebook just to say "MY FACE BOOK HAS NO PICTURE OF ME!!!!" When many of us saw them before she got a clue and removed them.
This little incident proves to me that Lenda is correct.
I WANT TO THANK EVERYONE FOR HAVING THE COMMON SENSE TO SEE THROUGH MY MALE COW MANURE. YOU ARE ALL RIGHT I HAVE POSTED ON HERE USING DIFFERENT NAMES JUST LIKE I DID ON FIND A GRAVE.
FIND A GRAVE WAS RIGHT TO BAN ME. I REALIZE NOW THAT I WILL NEVER BE HAPPY UNLESS I AM THREATENING OTHERS. JUST SO YOU KNOW THIS IS ME KARI NORSTOG I USED ALL CAPS.
BTW, I DO NOT HAVE A LAWSUIT FILED AGAINST LENDA, I DO NOT HAVE PRINTER INK TO PRINT ALL OF THESE COMMENTS AND EMAILS. I ADMIT I AM A NARCISSISTIC HATEFUL HAG, I AM LONELY, I HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO
All this talk about "Proof"... Every time I read a comment by Kari Norstog it is PROOF that she has some serious psychological issues and there is absolutely no doubt in my opinion the she continued to create fake profiles in order to return to find a grave under their radar.
Seems she's too ignorant to know that they have ways of tracking her on their website too.... BTW, Lenda, I am glad that find a grave has and continues to ban Kari.
Hope you can get on with your life Lenda and put all the ugliness that is Kari Norstog behind you. Kari comes off as a crazed lunatic and everyone here is witness to her PSYCHO WAYS!
Lenda Tuck Has stalked me on line and in emails, Lenda has stalked me on findagrave. Her threats are now going to be used to stop this from continuing.
These posts she puts up are very threating, Too me. I have had enough of this.
Stalking
Criminal activity consisting of the repeated following and harassing of another person. Stalking is a distinctive form of criminal activity composed of a series of actions that taken individually might constitute legal behavior.
For example, sending flowers, writing love notes, and waiting for someone outside her place of work are actions that, on their own, are not criminal. When these actions are coupled with an intent to instill fear or injury, however, they may constitute a pattern of behavior that is illegal.
Though anti-stalking laws are gender neutral, most stalkers are men and most victims are women.Victims should show the police the law when filing the stalking complaint and ask whether they should first seek a protective order against the stalker. In some states a violation of a protective order converts a stalking charge from a misdemeanor to a felony.
All this talk about "Proof"... Every time I read a comment by Kari Norstog it is PROOF that she has some serious psychological issues and there is absolutely no doubt in my opinion the she continued to create fake profiles in order to return to find a grave under their radar.
Seems she's too ignorant to know that they have ways of tracking her on their website too.... BTW, Lenda, I am glad that find a grave has and continues to ban Kari.
Hope you can get on with your life Lenda and put all the ugliness that is Kari Norstog behind you. Kari comes off as a crazed lunatic and everyone here is witness to her PSYCHO WAYS!
I WANT TO THANK EVERYONE FOR HAVING THE COMMON SENSE TO SEE THROUGH MY MALE COW MANURE. YOU ARE ALL RIGHT I HAVE POSTED ON HERE USING DIFFERENT NAMES JUST LIKE I DID ON FIND A GRAVE.
FIND A GRAVE WAS RIGHT TO BAN ME. I REALIZE NOW THAT I WILL NEVER BE HAPPY UNLESS I AM THREATENING OTHERS. JUST SO YOU KNOW THIS IS ME KARI NORSTOG I USED ALL CAPS.
BTW, I DO NOT HAVE A LAWSUIT FILED AGAINST LENDA, I DO NOT HAVE PRINTER INK TO PRINT ALL OF THESE COMMENTS AND EMAILS. I ADMIT I AM A NARCISSISTIC HATEFUL HAG, I AM LONELY, I HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO
I went to a "Kari Norstog's" face book page a few days ago and there was a picture of her it was a head shot hair do was from the eighties. There was a pic of chris and maddie, pics of scenery, pics of her bio dad, pics of kari in biker trash with biker trash.
Not sure why Kari is lying about the pics being there because they were before someone posted that fact on here. This must be how she got found out on findagrave. What kind of psycho rushes to remove pics of themselves on facebook just to say "MY FACE BOOK HAS NO PICTURE OF ME!!!!" When many of us saw them before she got a clue and removed them. This little incident proves to me that Lenda is correct.
Kari is a FRAUD, LIAR, DECEITFULL PSYCHOTIC SOCIOPATH.
Marriages of Kari proof she is incapable of keeping a husband.
Dennis M Forrester Kari J Norstog 01/07/1986 Denver CO
Doug T Cieloha Kari J Norstog 11/03/1990 Summit CO
Kurtis Dale Funk Kari Jo Norstog 10/05/2003 Adams CO
There was still pictures with Kari on her face book page as of last night, I copied them in anticipation that she will remove them and then try and say they were never there.....LIAR KARI LIAR!!! proof you are a fraud and liar!
Thanks again! THE FACT IS KARI YOU DID & DO HAVE PICTURES OF YOU ON YOUR FACE BOOK PAGE
SEE COMMENT: Kari › Anonymous 34 minutes ago
NOW THATS FUNNY ,BECAUSE MY FACE BOOK HAS NO PICTURE OF ME!!!!
Please forgive me, I know I have compulsions. As you all can see I visit this site several times a day. I vote down all the comments that do not favor me on the previous complaint about my foolishness on Find A Grave, that is proof that my life is pathetic and worthless...I am truly sorry.
Kari Wrote: Knock off the *** lenda . I was going to be nice too you and make web graves
and give them back too you, since I'm pretty sure you lost your mind.
When
you took them all down. why in the *** did you do that all I wanted was for you
too get rid of the Deloziers. They are not family. That's all you had too do!
what
is wrong with you?
Sent from my LG Mobile Lenda wrote: Subject: JIM TIPTON OWNER OF FIND A GRAVE Jim Tipton Jim Tipton OWNER OF FIND A GRAVE May 07, 2013 from Moab, Utah Yes, I'm a thief and there is nothing you can do about it. I will continue to profit from the deaths of your loved ones I will continue to violate copyrights. How else can I get a picture of your loved ones unless I have my members steal them from the obituaries you paid to have printed in your local newspaper. So what if you paid for the burial plot and the gravestone my website is going to profit from pictures of that gravestone.
Deal with it I'm rich and greedy and nobody is going to stop me! Reply http://www.pissedconsumer.com/reviews-by-company/find-a-grave/unlawful-hacking-threats-from-other-members-201303****3727.html
Kari wrote: So are you saying that the Wyatt`s still have web graves by her because even
though the names and dates are on a web page if you click on it, it goes to a
page saying this is no longer available .Just make a new grave for them and at
the bottom of each Web grave there is a number you can go to family links and
link them for. Father mother and spouse.
Sent from my LG Mobile Ted Delozier wrote: I don't think I can do anything about the Wyatt`s..She had so many phony graves, they show up on good ones and now no way to change them as they become part of findagrave database...those false dates will always be there!!!!!!!I find a Vince Wyatt on 1850 census, thought I had hit the jackpot, but the kids ages and date of birth and names are not even close to the history of Mary DeLozier...She had set up a George Washington as child of Rachel, George was Mary`s child, but with her wrong dates and wrong George, no way to get it right...There were thousands of George W.
Wyatt`s, several Wyatt families in and around the area...I found the picture of George W. Wyatt`s tomb, it was on an ancestry site, not even close to the right one...She just found stones, said they were in Kings Prairie and they are NOT THERE....I hope you have better results in getting stuff lined out right!
Proof of what Lenda was doing on find a grave to Ted and Kari!!!
Kari to Ted wrote: Lucky for me ted I have all the tucks on ancestry . Pics too. I don't know if
lenda was ordered to take all her stuff down because she lost the right or she
just did it. I think its the ultimate. *** too us .It will be a real
challenge. For me because its over 50 Tucks . I don't have access to my
computer. Right now and I'm doing most of it from my cell phone. I am really
ticked. At her. All she had too do was change Mary Anns mom, and give the Deloziers back too you. Sent from my LG Mobile
Kari wrote: Yes i know and its sad I didn't want all her web graves I just wanted her to put
down the right stuff about them. I get nobody wins but she didn't have to take
them down.
Just fix them.
Sent from my LG Mobile
Ted Delozier wrote:
Well Kari, in a situation such as what she was doing, no one wins...NO ONE WINS....I still say she is a sick person....I feel bad about getting soooooooooo danged angry....I hope you can now get your family up and going...I looked at the ones in Georgia she had put up, they are all gone, too, and the ones in Virginia about all the Plantations and people buried in cemeteries with no markers ,ect..????
On Monday, March 31, 2014 10:48 PM, Kari wrote: Yah she took them all down. Or Findagrave DID IT!!
Lenda got taken down on March 31st 2014, She has harassed Ted and Myself for a long time. I have so much more of these emails that were written at the time of her attacking us on find a grave.
IF ANYONE IS A FRAUD OR LIAR IT IS LENDA TUCK!!!!!!!!!!! HOWS THIS FOR PROOF LENDA!!!!!!