As have many others, I have encountered very annoying problems with the new Find A Grave site:
I have discovered that if a person is linked to an incorrect spouse, it is now impossible to delete the link to the incorrect spouse and replace the incorrect spouse with the correct spouse
I have further discovered that if any edits at all are pending, it is now impossible to submit additional edits until the edits that are pending have been processed.
I agree that the new Find A Grave site is a fiasco! I do not think that I will be using Find A Grave as much as I have been for years anymore, and I will certainly no longer refer people to Find A Grave like I once did.