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Sanctus E

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Upset with site

U create a memorial for a loved one.Once created Findagrave gives the memorial to one of their top contributor trolls. Consequently, u forfeit any rights to the memorial Some people collect stamps.

Findagrave trolls collect dead bodies. Just way too.much drama.

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Preferred solution: Apology

User's recommendation: Stay away..Too many trolls.

Sanctus E

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| map-marker Hilliard, Ohio

Upset with the site

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U make a memorial for a loved one. Then Findagrave turns it over to one of their top contributor trolls..

Consequently u forfeit all rights to the memorial u created. Some people collect stamps.

Findagrave trolls collect dead bodies. Just way too much drama.

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User's recommendation: Stay away. Just way too much troll drama.

Michael C Vyq

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Invasion of privacy

Many do not want to be part of Find A Grave data base for many different reasons. Trying to get a family removed is almost an impossibility.

I really could care less about Find A Grave's cyber graveyard and what they r doing is a public service.

It fails to be a public service unless people want it. Families do have rights and should be able to opt out.

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Cons:
  • Invasion of privacy

Preferred solution: My immediate family removed fr Find A Grave data base.

Jacquetta L

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RACHEL ROBINSON IS ALIVE !!! SHE'S 101 YRS OLD !

OMG...Rachel Annetta Robinson, Baseball great Jackie Robinson's widow is ALIVE !!! Why is she on FINDAGRAVE AS DECEASED??? SHE'S 101 YEARS OLD !!!

PLEASE FIX THIS ASAP !!!

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Pros:
  • Finding information in cemeteries
Cons:
  • Incorrect information

Preferred solution: Apology

Betsy E Ftk

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They don’t respond to emails!!!!

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Back in March I did some suggested edits on two memorials, and waited the 30 days to contact Find-A-Grave, and have sent two e-mails, and they still have NOT responded!!! These people need to get their *** together!!!

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Pros:
  • Good resource
Cons:
  • Will not respond to emails

Preferred solution: I want a response from this company

User's recommendation: *** poor customer service!!!

JDean

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Add Memorial

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When I go to a find a grave memorial and try to add a memorial it tells me the cemetery is not listed. This is very strange as I have added 100s of memorials to this same web site in the past.

Please find the problem and fix it please. Mount Olivet Cemetery Fort Worth, Tarrant County, Texas

Thomas Lee DeanBurial Mount Olivet Cemetery Fort Worth, Tarrant County, Texas, USA

Memorial ID 3570**** · View Source

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Anonymous
map-marker Deltona, Florida

Their Policies

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I live in Florida, my mother was buried at Washington Crossing cemetery in Pa.

My mother passed away January 27.

I went on find a grave and requested a photo of the grave, because I am far away. I was impressed that within an hour I got a photo I was very impressed with the site until my vicious spiteful sister, who is estranged from me, took over the site, took my words, took my photos deleted them Basically just stole everything that I did. Find a grave after I complained wouldnt do anything about it and said it was their policy that another family member can take over the site. I am angry and disgusted with find a grave I would never use them again my sister is an opportunist. She is neglectful to my parents, she steals from my parents and shes caused a rift in the family. We dont talk and being I was the creator of this site. I was the one that requested the photo find a grave does not have the right to do this to me or to anybody.

She did this on purpose, because I got the photo of the grave and showed it to my father, because she did not take him to see the grave and she was mad at me and shes doing it out of spite. I understand you cant get in the middle of a family quarrel, but I dont think that it is right when someone creates a site that someone else can just take it over like that. now Im gonna go through *** trying to get find a grave to take my words down. Im sure I can find somebody else to help me out. I dont need find a grave to help me out like I said, I wont be using them again.

The worst part of this is we are grieving. My father is 97 years old and is grieving and this is a terrible thing that they did.

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User's recommendation: Don’t use them because I let anybody take over your loved ones profile

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Guest

if u wanted a photo of the grave u should have contacted the sexton of the cemetery. They would have provided u a picture of the tombst without all the drama of Findagrave.

Guest

Try one of the other memorial sites on the internet.

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KIMBERELEY M

I need help. I cannot find my mother.

I called the number that I found on the internet for find a grade it just so happened it was ancestry so I told the girl what I was looking for and she gave me a email address which I have not responded to yet I'm sorry that you take it as a pissed consumer but I'm not pissed but I would like to find my mother's grave site and would like some assistance from someone thank you my name is Kim and I've sent you my number or I can send you my number 501-744-**** I would appreciate any help you guys can give me

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Preferred solution: Location of my mother's grave site all I know is it was Star City there's 16 cemeteries in Star City

Ln L

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Zero safety and security protocols

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I wouldn't even know about this site if not for the stalking and harassment I have received from it since my mother passed away.

FAG has ZERO safety protocols on their site. Their rules about removing profiles require deceased people to be alive (only parents, siblings, and children...all of whom are dead).

You can't show proof of next of kin to manage your own family's profiles. You can't even block people.

The site is wonky, and their rules are literally impossible. It is a gross violation of my safety and security that they will allow some random person to manage a profile for my family. I'm all that is left of my family.

I'm the only one who matters in this case. I'm the one being stalked and harassed by members of FAG.

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Cons:
  • Zero safety and security protocols exist with the site

Preferred solution: transfer of my grandfather's profile from some random person to me.

User's recommendation: manage as much of your data as they will let you, and then clear it out.

DEBRA B Wii

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How come your support unit has not acknowledged...

How come your support unit has not acknowledged any of the 6 or 7 support emails I have sent in regards to refunding sponsorship that was on my Memorial I made 23 Feb 2023 and someone made a duplicate one on 26 Feb 2023 and they deleted my Memorial and moved my sponsorship onto their duplicate Memorial? I am not sponsoring someone else Memorial. I sponsored the one I originally made for a fellow military Veteran and firefighter.

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Sponsorships are non-refundable.

Anonymous
map-marker Springfield, Virginia

Cemetery mix up

PLEASE call me. This is complicated.

I need to speak to a person!

Thank you! Johnny Raines 540-746-****

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Cavon Sat

FIND A GRAVE BANNED LENDA TUCK FOR PLAGIARIZM,FRAUD,AND ADDING FAKE MEMORIALS TO PEOPLES WEB GRAVES. THANK YOU! SO MUCH, FIND A GRAVE

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Updated by user Jan 01, 2015

Lenda Tuck, Has been absolutely the worse person I have ever come across on and off Find a grave.

I can tell you that Lenda has some serious issues`s with find a grave and has taken her anger out on the wrong people, me Kari Norstog and Ted Delozier, not on the company its self.

Lenda has written 4 posts on me and find a grave.

None of the posts are correct or have any proof of her accusations. They are just hateful acts of her insistence of being vindictive because they suspended her for writing terrible things on her posts and mine.. Lenda Tuck is blaming everybody but herself for getting suspended from find a grave.

Lenda is Devious sociopathic liar, and a master manipulator of words and writings on Find a grave and on posts on this site.

I never did or said anything to make find a grave take her memorials down. I have never in my life hurt my families reputation, by adding false graves or information about them on Find a grave.

I never did anything to deserve all the terrible things Lenda Tuck has written about me.

I do have proof of what Lenda Tuck has done to me, my families and Ted Delozier. If you can read past the terrible naming calling you will see the emails Ted and I were writing while Lenda Tuck was going about Writing and adding false information on our memorials. Lenda Tuck Is a Bully and Bullied Ted Delozier and Myself Kari Norstog on and of find a grave. What I have written on my post here is the truth and is what started the whole thing between us.

If Lenda Tuck Hadn`t Lied and Plagiarized about my grandfather none of this would have ever happened to either of us.

The lesson I learned here is not to ask find a grave for help with a bully. They will only delete your contribution of memorials and your contributor page.

Original review Nov 09, 2014
Lenda Tuck Had a memorial for my 2 great grand father, Richard B. Tuck, Which in the beginning was okay, because all she had on it was where he came from. WHERE THIS CHANGED: I told Lenda my family is part Cherokee Indian. LENDA TUCK DELIBERTLY WROTE ON HIS MEMORIAL, THAT MY GRAND FATHER WAS KILLED BY PIN (CHEROKEE) INDIANS. IN A BURNING OF OSCEOLA MO. His wife, My Great grand mother was Indian! SHE PLAGIARIZED KATHLEEN WHITES BOOK material written by Kathleen White Miles book "Bitter Ground" about landed estates out of the line of bluffs of Weaubleau Creek Lenda Tuck Plagiarized some article about Pin Indians that were in Arkansas not in Missouri in 1862-**** Civil war. THIS IS WHY I AM ANGRY ABOUT IT!! LENDA HAD NO PROOF OF THIS STATEMENT ON MY GRAND FATHERS WEB GRAVE. THERE IS NO INFORMATION ON MY GRAND FATHER OTHER THAN A COURT CASE IN VIRGINA AND A 1860 CENSES AND NOBODY KNOWS WHAT HAPPENED TO HIM AFTER THAT!!

LENDA TUCK, ALSO MADE UP ADDED PEOPLE TO MY 2 GREAT GRANDMOTHERS RICHARD B TUCKS WIFE,WEB GRAVE THAT DID NOT BELONG TO MY FAMILY,LIKE THE DELOZIERS SHE HAD THEM REALLY MAD AT HER!

LENDA TUCK FRAUDULENTLY MADE UP WEB GRAVES AND ADDED THEM TO MY FAMILY AFTER SHE WAS BANNED BY FIND A GRAVE AND CAME BACK ON FIND A GRAVE AS GRAVE FINDER,TEXAS COWGIRL AND TEXAS LADY. I HAVE PROOF OF ALL HER ACTS ON FIND A GRAVE.
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Cons:
  • Customer service
Reason of review:
They did not stop her behavior
63 comments
Guest

I was complaining about you and Ted to Findagrave. They never responded at all, so what the ***... I know you two were complaining abou me to and they never responded to you either..

Guest

Your crazy i never tryied to hurt or mess with your tree.i can't so there. I

believe you have a serious mental problem

Sent from my LG Mobile

Lenda wrote:

I am not trying to trick you.

There are thousands of complaints on Findagrave... I never knew that until I looked it up. I was complaining about you and Ted to Findagrave. They never responded at all, so what the ***...

I know you two were complaining abou me to and they never responded to you either..

After I sat up half the night reading about all the complaints and what they can do.... people have 6,000 memorials and findagrave just deletes them for no reasons.... if you go to complaints on findagrave and read for yourself... you will see what I am talking about.

I have never met anyone like you before...

I am serious.

Guest

Geeeessss Grand ma you are nuts you better stop harassing Kari Shes going to put up so much evidence on you that you are going to jail

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As you read these comments bare in mind that I have been Stalked and Harassed by Lenda Tuck for over a year. Lenda uses my name against me, on these comments.

I believe Lenda has never come to grips with what she did too her self on find a grave. Lenda Tuck made this mess and now wont own up to it. If Lenda Tuck wanted to stay on Find a grave she should have read the policies and the terms that clearly state all about harassing other contributors this includes writing false information on some ones web grave . She was too arrogant and that was her first mistake.

If she had read those terms on find a grave she would know that they reserve the right to cancel any one of the contributors memberships, for abusing, using offensive language or harassment of another contributor.

SO See...Its her own fault! Lenda Tuck you need to own up to what you did, instead of blaming others for what you did too yourself!!!

Guest

Mom you better stop we are going to have to come back from heaven and you don't want that do you?

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MOM WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS, WE ARE GOING TO HAVE TO COMMITT YOU TO THE MENTAL WARD. YOU ARE A DANGER TO YOURSELF AS WELL AS OTHERS NAMELY US YOUR FAMILY.

YOU CONTINUE TO SHOW SIGNS OF YOUR PSYCHOIOS. WE CAN'T LET YOU SEE MADDIE IF YOU CONTINUE YOUR PSYCHOTIC BEHAVIOR.

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My son would never say this not ever!!!!!!!!!

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Grandma Kari you are crazy you are bullying poor Mrs. Tuck.

Why do you like to bully people you bullied my Mom and that's why she hates you too. We can't stand being around you all you do is complain about Mrs. Tuck it just shows us that you are jealous of her and blame her for all that is bad in your life. You keeping this craziness going on just proves to us that you aren't happy and you will never be happy.

Grandma Kari you are a sad and pathetic Grandmother. Show love instead of hate.

Guest

Lenda Tuck I am so sick in the Head I need to comment using your name constantly and I must repeat myself continuously because IM IM IM ST.upid.. Iam so sick.....

I have to use sexual jabs in all my nasty minded comments that I use your name to write them with!

GOD CAN YOU PLEASE FORGIVE ME? BECAUSE LENDA TUCK NEVER WILL!!!!!!!!!!Kari Norstog

Guest

Mom you need to stop this! you are ruining our family name, not to menschen find a grave.

I guess my sister and I Shutona, will have to take away your computer again. Dad must be rolling over in his grave!!! Mother you are really needing a shrink!!!!! I cant believe what your doing to this family!

I cant believe what you have done on findagrave and what your doing to this poor girl Kari Norstog!

This is outrageous mother, and we are going to have to do something about you. You are way out of control!!!!!

This is so sad mother how could you do this to us? You were doing so well on find a grave, why did you write on Kari`s grandfather`s web grave?

It was great the way it was before you did that! You did this too all of us not just Kari!

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AMEN S. EVANS Please do get your mother some help!!!

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Lenda I have read all the posts about you and Kari, and believe you me, it was too much. I believe Kari was bullied by you on and off findagrave and on pissed consumers.

There is way more evidence against you Attacking her and Ted on findagrave. I haven't seen any evidence on any of your posts, that can prove Kari, did anything to you on findagrave. As far as I am concerned all the evidence makes you look bad. I think you were really angry that Findagrave ,suspended your account ,and you needed someone to blame.

So since Kari was angry with you about her 2nd Great Grandfather Richard Tuck, and his wife, You Lenda Tuck set out to attack all the memorials that Kari Had made. Then you came on pissed consumers and tried to Make It look like Kari Norstog had done these awful things too you! When In "reality" It was "you" who did all..

Those things you accused Kari of. You" Lenda Tuck attacked Kari, and her side of the Tuck family, and the Norstogs too!!!!

Cavon Sat

Lenda Tuck is a very sick woman, she cant stop using my name for her ridiculous comments, and it only proves that she did all the things I wrote about in this post!

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Amen Sister,

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Lenda Tuck I am so sick in the Head I need to comment using your name constantly and I must repeat myself continuously because IM IM IM ST.upid.. Iam so sick.....

I have to use sexual jabs in all my nasty minded comments that I use your name to write them with!

GOD CAN YOU PLEASE FORGIVE ME? BECAUSE LENDA TUCK NEVER WILL!!!!!!!!!!Kari Norstog

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KARI LIES AND NOW SHE REMOVED ALL HER PERSONAL PICS ON HER FACEBOOK PAGE BECAUSE SHE FINALLY GOT A CLUE...WHAT A TYPICAL INBRED INCESTOUS HARLOT.

This is WHY we will NEVER BELIEVE KARI....Yeah I went to the face book page too right after that comment was posted and I saw the photo of Kari but after Kari saw the comment the photo was removed and the cover photo changed too....See for yourselves

In response to:I went to a "Kari Norstog's" face book page a few days ago and there was a picture of her it was a head shot hair do was from the eighties. There was a pic of chris and maddie, pics of scenery, pics of her bio dad, pics of kari in biker trash with biker trash.

Not sure why Kari is lying about the pics being there because they were before someone posted that fact on here. This must be how she got found out on findagrave.

What kind of psycho rushes to remove pics of themselves on facebook just to say "MY FACE BOOK HAS NO PICTURE OF ME!!!!" When many of us saw them before she got a clue and removed them. This little incident proves to me that Lenda is correct.

Guest

This is WHY we will NEVER BELIEVE KARI....Yeah I went to the face book page too right after that comment was posted and I saw the photo of Kari but after Kari saw the comment the photo was removed and the cover photo changed too....See for yourselves

In response to:I went to a "Kari Norstog's" face book page a few days ago and there was a picture of her it was a head shot hair do was from the eighties. There was a pic of chris and maddie, pics of scenery, pics of her bio dad, pics of kari in biker trash with biker trash.

Not sure why Kari is lying about the pics being there because they were before someone posted that fact on here. This must be how she got found out on findagrave.

What kind of psycho rushes to remove pics of themselves on facebook just to say "MY FACE BOOK HAS NO PICTURE OF ME!!!!" When many of us saw them before she got a clue and removed them. This little incident proves to me that Lenda is correct.

Guest

Ted is a hateful old per.vert. You are a psychotic biker trash...see you removed your biker trash pics from your face book bet LIE and say they were never there too., KARI NORSTOG YOU ARE A LIAR!!!

Guest

No I am so sorry Lenda, Its all my fault . I shouldn't have messed with your memorials .

My bad .I started the whole fight between us. Me and Ted declared war on you ,because Iam so selfish ,so stubborn,so hard headed that I only believe my own cow manure writting .

Again please forgive me please please please!!!!! I love you Lenda and hope you will forgive me.

Guest

No I am so sorry Lenda, Its all my fault . I shouldn't have messed with your memorials .

My bad .I started the whole fight between us. Me and Ted declared war on you ,because Iam so selfish ,so stubborn,so hard headed that I only believe my own cow manure writting .

Again please forgive me please please please!!!!! I love you Lenda and hope you will forgive me.

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Anonymous
map-marker Chatsworth, Georgia

Can't access my account

I can't access account and nobody there gives a damn. What does it take less than a miracle of God to speak to someone in customer service.

Site is good until you can't access your account then you are on your own.

I guess they have no one in customer service or no one who knows how to actually speak to someone to solve a problem. Signed pissed off customer

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Earl P Mpc

Major computer error

I created over 300 memorials from my distant relatives back in 2011 and now I find most are being maintained by someone Ive never heard of overseas who now maintains 129,000 graves, how in the world did find A Grave decide to assigned maintenance of graves and memorials that I created to someone that I have never given authorization to, obviously a major computer problem on Find a Grav

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Pros:
  • Graves and memorials of deceased relatives
  • Excellent source to locate
Cons:
  • After creating memorials
  • Anyone can reassign your memorial to themselves to maintain whereas you can no longer access memorials you have created

Preferred solution: Apology

User's recommendation: Keep an eye on Find A Grave you can create memorial, but anybody can claim that they maintain your memorial wear for your on able to make corrections to your own memorials

Anonymous
map-marker California, Maryland

Resolved issue with use of website

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Find A Grave customer service does not have/use a telephone interface with customers. Sent them an email re the issue and they provided feedback/advice within 24 hours. I fixed the problem with their input..

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User's recommendation: use: support@***.com