If a cemetery is PRIVATE, it needs to have a sign that says so. I can drive all over town and none of the cemeteries I see have any PRIVATE signs on them. If the PRIVATE cemeteries don't like what Find A Grave volunteers have added, let them contact Find A Grave and complain and get the info/photos taken down. If you don't want your fathers info on the site, write to FG and tell them to take it down. So you talked to a "bully" big deal, go over the their head and talk to a FG admin, they override a volunteer/"bully". If you read the FAQs, there are different email addresses for different situations. Oh wait, let me just post them for you so your panties won't get in a wad over this too.
Use this email to request that a memorial be added to Honoring, Interesting Monuments, or Interesting Epitaphs or to mark a memorial as a cenotaph, report an inappropriate biography, and any other issues concerning memorials.
Note: to suggest changes to name, birth/death, plot, inscription, family links, use Suggest Edits on the memorial.
This is where you would report copyright issues, an unresponsive transfer requests or a deceased contributor; assign Fallen Graver stewardship or send all other questions.
You can use this email or the Cemetery Correction/Update forum to submit cemetery updates including adding a cemetery bio, GPS, address, town, name corrections, and AKAs.
Send issues concerning famous memorial bios, duplicates or Posthumous Reunions to this email. For suggestions about the name, birth/death, plot, inscription or family links on famous memorials, use the Suggest Edits on the memorial.
Use this email to suggest a missing location, correct a location spelling, report duplicate location in the geographic database or other geography questions. Read here "How do I add a location that does not show in your database?" before submitting. Note: Do not use for cemetery updates or duplicates.
This email is for reporting an inappropriate photo, adding a cemetery photo to cemeteries without photo option or correcting a cemetery photo.
This email address is for urgent matters only, meaning it is a pressing issue that needs immediate attention and the issue is not covered in the descriptions of email addresses above noted.
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1300 West Traverse Parkway
Lehi, UT 84043
Overall though, what you posted here is going to change nothing. Not a thing. You can preach here all you want and no one else is going to see it, nor give a rats *** I only came here because someone else sent me the link to have a good laugh. Most of these comments on this site are by people who don't play by the rules that FG has set.
Find A Grave obits aren't set in stone, professionals aren't making the memorials. You don't like something written in an obit? Send proof it's wrong and it will usually get changed. You people act like this is the be-all, end-all of the worse things that people can do on the internet. Please, take off your blinders.
Oh and for people who think they should be PAID to post pictures on a VOLUNTARY site, HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA OMG paid-voluntary HA HA HA HA HA.